{"id":330,"date":"2015-12-29T15:15:59","date_gmt":"2015-12-29T15:15:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/?p=330"},"modified":"2016-01-17T06:23:07","modified_gmt":"2016-01-17T06:23:07","slug":"vvvs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/2015\/12\/29\/vvvs\/","title":{"rendered":"VVV&#8217;s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Matt 18:3 \u2026<\/em><em>\u201cDit verseker Ek julle: As julle nie verander en soos kindertjies word nie, sal julle beslis nie in die koninkryk van die hemel kom nie.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Miskien het dit hierdie Kerstyd met jou gebeur dat jy \u2018n spesifieke geskenk verwag het, maar dit toe nie gekry het nie. Of dalk het jy verwag dat \u2018n familielid op \u2018n sekere manier moes optree, maar het toe nie. Is dit nie iets wat ons almal een of ander tyd, of dalk sommer gereeld beleef nie?<\/p>\n<p>Ann Voskamp skryf in haar boek One Thousand Gifts: <em>expectations kill relationships<\/em>. Ek het dit vertaal dit na: <em>verwagtinge versmoor (of vernietig) verhoudings<\/em> of sommer kortweg: VVV. Die afgelope paar dae het ek myself dopgehou en was ietwat verbaas om te sien hoe gereeld ek dit self doen (dis mos altyd makliker om dit in iemand anders raak te sien\u2026). Wanneer ek die verwagting laat gaan het, het ek myself in \u2018n vryer, oper ruimte gevind. Dit laat my dink aan Psalm 131 waar ons genooi word om net soos \u2018n kind in \u2018n ma se arms te l\u00ea, met geen verwagtinge nie, net tevrede soos dit nou is. Geen wonder Jesus het ges\u00ea dat ons soos kindertjies moet word nie.<\/p>\n<p>Hoe kom ek vry van hierdie verwagting-ding? \u00a0Ek moet eers bewus daarvan word voordat ek dit kan laat gaan en dan verskyn Sy\u00a0<em>vryheid, vrede, vreugde<\/em> (\u2018n nuwe VVV!). \u00a0So word die tafel gedek om Sy se\u00ebn en Seun te ontvang<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_7445.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-325\" src=\"http:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_7445-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_7445\" width=\"603\" height=\"402\" srcset=\"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_7445-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_7445-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 603px) 100vw, 603px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_0415.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-328\" src=\"http:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_0415-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_0415\" width=\"603\" height=\"452\" srcset=\"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_0415-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_0415-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/IMG_0415.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 603px) 100vw, 603px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; Matt 18:3 \u2026\u201cDit verseker Ek julle: As julle nie verander en soos kindertjies word nie, sal julle beslis nie in die koninkryk van die hemel kom nie. &nbsp; Miskien het dit hierdie Kerstyd met jou gebeur dat jy \u2018n spesifieke geskenk verwag het, maar dit toe nie gekry het nie. Of dalk het <span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span> <span class=\"more-link-wrap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/2015\/12\/29\/vvvs\/\" class=\"more-link\"><span>Read More &rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":328,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,10,6,8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=330"}],"version-history":[{"count":18,"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":434,"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330\/revisions\/434"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/328"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=330"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=330"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digbyu.co.za\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=330"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}